drinking, taking risks, parties, reuniting with friends, thesis, graduating, exercise, friends, friends, friends… = is my recipe for getting over things as peaceful as I can. I got over it without leaving a mess, didn’t I? and I met someone who loves me and makes me happy along the way.  I felt liberty, control over my life and joy, it was like a breath of fresh air. It was rejuvenating and I didn’t realize that I needed it until the day that I felt it. I am now happy and grateful of the things in the past, though not much on the pain but that’s just how things work, in order to be happy one must get through a lot of pain to strengthen up and be able to get over it and to continue on with life.